I Don’t Know Who I Am Anymore. Lost yourself. Dependant on how your wife feels about you, to feel valuable. If she loves you, you’re good enough. So when she doesn’t want you, or try as hard as you…. Love as much as you do…. You break more. If you’re dependent on your wife… Tethered to her…. She doesn’t need you. She needs a leader. She WANTS to need you. And if she doesn’t need you…. She’ll divorce you emotionally…. Until the worst happens. Become a man SO VALUABLE, your wife would be crazy to