Here’s how I overcame addiction and compulsive behavior in my marriage. To start, here’s what didn’t work. 1 trying harder to just STOP 2 Shutting down my desires 3 Justifying my behavior as “normal.” 4 Blaming women for how they dress Here’s what did work. The single most painful and uncomfortable thing I did, which made the biggest impact on my healing, was to share the details of my sexual thoughts and behaviors with my wife. Most counselors don’t recommend this route, and they have their rea